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Writer's pictureJessie Ladipo

Do You Struggle with What to Do on Valentine's? Look No Further!


Young loving couple embracing and holding red roses bouquet while celebrating Valentines day at home
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Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to celebrate love in extraordinary ways. But the most romantic day of the year brings expectations of fairytale romance. While classic dinner dates and roses are timeless, adding a unique twist can make your day unforgettable. Here are some creative and romantic date ideas for anyone struggling to bring romance on Valentine's.


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Private Stargazing Experience

Escape the city lights and venture to a secluded spot where you can marvel at the night sky. Bring along a cozy blanket, a telescope, and some hot cocoa. Enhance the experience with a playlist of romantic tunes or an app to help identify constellations. This intimate setting is perfect for deep conversations and shared dreams.



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Cooking Class for Two

Instead of dining out, why not learn to cook a new cuisine together? Book a private or small-group cooking class to explore dishes like handmade pasta, sushi, or gourmet desserts. You'll bond over the shared experience, and the meal you create will taste even better knowing you made it together. If you are in the Lexington, KY area, check out my friend, Sweet and Sassy Ashley. She is a phenomenal chef and a great teacher. I took her ravioli class, and it was edible. That's a miracle of biblical proportions; my kids don't know dinner is ready until the fire alarm goes off.


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Couples' Spa Night at Home

Transform your home into a spa retreat. Light some candles, make a soothing music playlist, and take turns giving each other massages with luxurious oils. Create a DIY facial station and end the evening soaking in a bubble bath with champagne and strawberries.





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Themed Movie Night

Pick a theme, such as "Parisian Romance" or "Classic Hollywood Love Stories," and curate a lineup of films, snacks, and decorations. For a Parisian theme, serve wine, cheese, and macarons while watching classics like Amélie or Midnight in Paris. Bonus points if you allow romantic past to guide your themed night. I honeymooned in Italy and turned my home into Tuscany for a night.



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Hot Air Balloon Ride

Consider booking a hot air balloon ride if you want an adventurous yet romantic experience. Soaring above breathtaking landscapes as the sun rises or sets will create a magical memory you'll cherish forever. If you are around Lexington, check out H. I. Flight, Inc. I have used them for proposals several times, and they are excellent.



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Love Letter Treasure Hunt

Surprise your partner with a scavenger hunt around your home or city. Write heartfelt love letters or clues leading to significant locations in your relationship, such as your first date spot or a favorite park. End the hunt with a special gift or dinner.



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Artistic Adventures

Unleash your creative sides with an art-themed date. Attend a pain-and-sip class, try pottery-making, or spend the day sketching each other. The keepsakes you create will serve as lasting reminders of your special Day. Paint with a Twist is fantastic in my area.



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A Day of Firsts

Recreate your first date or try something neither of you has done before. Whether it's ice skating, horseback riding, or exploring a new neighborhood, experiencing something for the first time together can reignite excitement and curiosity in your relationship.



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Volunteer Together

Spend the day giving back to a cause you both care about. Volunteering at a local shelter, food bank, or animal rescue can be a meaningful way to bond and show love beyond your relationship.






Sunset Beach picnic at Vakkaru Maldives
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Sunset Picnic on the Beach

Pack a gourmet picnic basket with your favorite foods, a bottle of wine, and a cozy blanket. Head to the beach or a scenic overlook to watch the sunset together. You'll create a picturesque and romantic moment as the sky changes colors.







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Adventure Getaway

Turn Valentine's Day into a mini vacation. Book a night in a cozy cabin, a boutique hotel, or even go glamping. Spend your time hiking, exploring local attractions, or simply enjoying each other's company away from daily distractions. Nashville is an excellent option with loads of fantastic hotels. If you want an incredibly romantic hotel outside of Nashville, let me recommend the Southall Farm and Inn.  



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Customized Wine or Chocolate Tasting

Design your own tasting experience at home. Select a range of wines and chocolates to pair, and take turns rating your favorites. For a bonus, research pairing suggestions and write mini "tasting notes" to share.



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Love Story Photo Shoot

Hire a photographer or use a tripod and timer to capture professional-quality photos of you and your partner. Choose a location with sentimental value, dress up, and have fun documenting your love story.




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Bookstore Date with a Twist

Visit a local bookstore and pick out a book for each other that reminds you of your relationship. Over coffee or tea, share why you chose that particular book. It's a thoughtful way to express your feelings through literature.




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Surprise Staycation

Turn your home into a romantic retreat. Decorate a room with fairy lights, candles, and flowers. Order takeout from your favorite restaurant, dress up as if you're dining out, and end the night dancing to your favorite songs.





Whatever your chosen idea, the key to a memorable Valentine's Day is focusing on what makes your relationship unique. Personalize your plans to reflect your shared interests and the love you've built together. After all, the thought and effort make Valentine's truly special. Let's chat about your next romantic adventure.


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